"Oh, the joys of those who do not follow the advice of the wicked, or stand around with sinners, or join in with mockers. But they delight in the law of the Lord, meditating on it day and night. They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit in each season. Their leaves never wither and they prosper in all they do"- Psalms 1:1-3
Let this year be the year that you decide to pour into your relationship with your mother or daughter. There may be past hurt and pain there, but do not "follow the advice of the wicked". Don't let the enemy convince you that your relationship cannot be restored, and don't speak negative words about her. Ask the Lord to change your heart. Then begin to speak, declare, and meditate on Gods words, for God shows his strength to those who respect the heart-mouth connection. It is time to bare fruit.